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Swingset.Social Announcement:

Did you know that we have a directory now? (Thank you upgrades!)

If you're interested in being listed in the *** publicly available *** directory as a user here, edit your profile and check the "List This Account on the Directory" box!

* Tagging of local users commences... now.

Shoutout to @memnus, @Duncan, and @viachicago1979 who have graciously agreed to participate as part of the moderation team, and to advice on various goings ons and what not.

~ Logs into mastodon

~ Searches for current trashfire
"hordes of abusers on"
"lead mastodon dev not considering changes to make allow admins to better protect their users"
"various instanes considering blocking"

... god damn am I fucking glad I run my own instance. This is SO MUCH more manageable than Twitter trash fires and people @ tagging Jack and TwitterSupport thinking that's going to help.

Current Status:
Downloading my entire Flickr existence, then killing the Flickr account.

Seriously considering setting up my own @pixelfed instance to have something interesting to migrate to.

I've never set anything up like this myself ohgod

So today on BIRDSITE I was invited to moderate . I was legitimately excited to do it, I’ve done it before and it was a blast!

Today however... Twitter’s hashtag views were not updating properly and notifications/ mentions were slow as molasses.


So we have rescheduled, nbd, much love for Sssh for Women.

I cant help but think I wish we could have done it here. :)

Hey, friends, remember to be kind to yourselves and each other today. Days like this it can feel like we're all we've got.

what if I imposed a MINIMUM length on rars (possibly not to replies, sometimes 'yes' or 'no' or '🖕🏾' really IS all you need to say) 

:mastodon: My favorite highlights of #Mastodon 2.7.0 :
- Multiple hashtags in a single column (I literally asked for that:
- The new Profile directory:
- The new public tags page layout (do you know what's missing from that? That's right, multiple hashtags in a single page)
- The new notification filters

Check the Release notes, this release is bonkers
Thanks @Curator for the upgrade!

Upon further comment, I take back the first two requests and stick with:

"Set someone's default views to Home / Notifications / Local Timeline / Federated Timeline so that things don't seem so empty when new users, completely virgin to Mastodon, log in."

I'm going to have to make an "" and set it as a default follow that people are welcome to unfollow and... maybe convince current users to follow it, much like the vaunted Hedonism Bot (@podcasts).

Things i'd still like to do with :

@all tag everyone on an instance as an admin or moderator to generate a notification.

DM everyone on an instance as an admin.

Set someone's default views to Home / Notifications / Local Timeline / Federated Timeline so that things don't seem so empty when new users, completely virgin to Mastodon, log in.

Fellow admins, if there are ways you've figured out to do any of these things, I am interested!

So I posted a thing on Twitter and Facebook because I'm lucky enough to have a significant following on those platforms and...

'cause I was in need of a bit of a personal boost.

I've (luckily) been very good at valuing and bosting other people's work, I haven't been good at doing it for my own and I badly needed it.

So I'm taking time to thank everyone there, it just took me almost a week to do it becaue I couldn't build up the chutzpah for saying thank you.

*sigh* I'm strange.

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We are swingers, polyamorous, sex positive, nonmonogamous, kinky, and accepting folk. We are consent and kink aware, welcoming to people of color, and LGBTQIA+ inclusive.

We discuss a lot of things here; podcasts, swinging, polyamory, kink, nonmonogamy, and sex-positivity, and we expect our users to respect general mastodon community standards surrounding using content warnings (CW) for politics, tough discussions, nudity, and graphic kink / bdsm. Viewer discretion is advised.

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