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@DianaTourjee@twitter.com thread on trans attracted cis men & visibility 

So I'm going to need to do some real listening / digging on this. I'm pretty openly attracted to trans women, but also (considering how much I talk about butt stuff and group sex) relatively quiet about
it.

Consciousness about causing harm by fetishizing trans women has driven that path more than anything else.

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@DianaTourjee@twitter.com thread on trans attracted cis men & visibility 

Almost every other call for visibility I can think of means yelling it off the rooftops, so a call to visibility via simple every day admission really surprised me.

I'm also not 100% how to teach that
to other cis dudes or practice it since my understanding up to now has been to be very conscious about crossing into chaser territory, and...

holy shit I'd feel bad if someone i talked to ventured there.

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@DianaTourjee@twitter.com thread on trans attracted cis men & visibility 

Just read this thread on Twitter:
twitter.com/dianatourjee/statu

Knowing no single person needs to take the weight of responsibility on her shoulders to answer...

Removing celebrity men from the equation for a moment, I'm a little stunned (as in, knocked back into my chair a little bit saying "huh") at @DianaTourjee@twitter.com's desire for more cis men to speak up about fucking trans women.

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I bought a 3440x1440 monitor and I'm already seeing productivity improvements. It's going to pay for itself so it's not a splurge but I didn't expect it to be THAT much better than having ex 1920x1080 panels.

A little local bookkeeping announcement:

We've defederated from social.byoblu.com for good ol' fashioned white supremacy and aggressive transphobia.

A small bright spot:
My pre-order of Burnout Paradise: Remastered arrived and I my son is checking it out.

Mobile clients:

I’ve loved Amaroq for quite a while but it’s not iPadOS native and it feels long in the tooth.

Anyone have recommendations for a new, more modern feeling client that supports iPadOS?

I’d consider support a nice to have but I assume there aren’t any clients that directly support it yet.

nerds getting mad over a few open source projects finally replacing the master/slave terminology for processes is the most pathetic nerd shit imaginable. changing the terms affects nothing in terms of how the software runs. It literally changes nothing but creates a slightly more welcoming environment for non-white programmers.

It's incredibly sad and frustrating seeing these assholes vociferously defending something so completely unimportant.

Mobile clients:

I’ve loved Amaroq for quite a while but it’s not iPadOS native and it feels long in the tooth.

Anyone have recommendations for a new, more modern feeling client that supports iPadOS?

I’d consider support a nice to have but I assume there aren’t any clients that directly support it yet.

I also follow FAR TOO MANY Canadian SWers.

I mean it’s not a bad thing but I don’t see myself heading to Toronto or Vancouver anytime soon.

(Still love y’all!)

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It’s been so long since we’ve been in a threesome I think we may need a bit of a reintroduction to restore some confidence. Tonia and I are f’n great. She loves strapping on AND loves being the center of attention, it works really well... but yeah.

I know I regularly follow SWers here/on twitter but I’m going to keep my ears/eyes open for someone who does duos and is relatively local.

Time to start setting aside a little at a time!

Hi all... so that was embarrassing. I lost access to the server thanks to a 2FA / Device SNAFU but I'm back!

In other news I’ve found and I’m hooked. I’d kinda love to get a MASSIVE game going if anyone’s interested.

players also apply within.

corona, covid, virus, police 

(Looks at the right who fly blue lives
matter flags at home)
“the police are oppressing us, freedom, abuse of power!”
[drake scowl]

(looks at ‘liberals’ and a small # of acab folk)
“The police should be putting those fuckers in jail they’re endangering everyone!”
“Turn on the firehoses!”
[drake scowl]

(looks at intersectional black / brown folk)
“cops would be shooting these fuckers in a heartbeat if they weren’t white. Police your own damn people”
[smug drake]

Mental Health / Medication 

Even interacting on social media was tiring... so we’ll see where this goes but I’m optimistic.

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