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Hi. I live in , . I help to run a lot of not for profit communities:

1. an annual & , .
2. the Mastodon instance.

- solo polyamorous for 13 years
- developer day job
- big house with 3 adults, none of us sleep with each other, no kids
- designer of "Overworld".

i'm gonna be levitating on horny energy till thanksgiving

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Lewd shitpost I'm sure somebody's made before 

Gotta rearrange this couch for all the gay sex we're having on it, good thing I got a homosectional

Selfie, eye contact, wait, how do I do this again? Oh yeah BOOSTS WELCOME AND SHIT 

Oh hello, it's @ToniaThomas and me, LIVE, from !

i am a dork 

Today, while drying myself with a towel...

I hit myself in the dick.
What. The. Hell...

mortality mention 

Four people in the above photo have passed, three this Labor Day.


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death and other personal tragedy 

...and as the Tuesday country song plays out, a partner of mine had her car die on her.

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death and other personal tragedy 

I just found out three friends I met at Burning Man died yesterday, together, on a boat.

Also hey someone I truly consider a best friend just (mutually) called off their engagement and I found out about that a few hours ago.

I’ve taken a few gut punches.

I've been suspending Gab instances on sight, the earliest being and


Wife is out on a ladies night. Do I... 

- Be Productive by editing a podcast
- Be productive and fold my clothes
- Be productive and change the wheels and bearings on my skates

... nah I think I’ll spend a bit of time “alone”

really feeling like fedi could use another round of “what’s your Bad Dragon Dildosona”

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We are swingers, polyamorous, sex positive, nonmonogamous, and accepting of any and all relationship practices. We are consent and kink aware. We welcome people of color and extend a specific welcome to black and indigenous people. We accept all sexual orientations (LGBTQIA+ inclusive) and gender identities.

We discuss a lot of things here; podcasts, swinging, polyamory, kink, nonmonogamy, and sex-positivity, and we expect our users to respect general mastodon community standards surrounding using content warnings (CW) for politics, tough discussions, nudity, and graphic kink / bdsm. Viewer discretion is advised.

If you're cool with all this, you can apply to join our little community by visiting our application page and we'll let you in!