I like how i just started free associating and it made me think about the Big Chill and, well there you go.

Honestly, it's a waypoint towards a communalized life that we've all been separated from for too long.

Also, The Big Chill is lowkey a polyamorous text. watch it if you haven't. It is everything right AND wrong with the current zeitgeist. just without the name.

it is only revolutionary as a vehicle for other ideologies. Polyamory in itself has been used coercively, and it continues to be a "target rich environment" for abusive people.

What I see happening now is the kind of upswing you see when a lot of people are in the "honeymoon phase" of a new way of thinking. This is good, but will have its letdown.

I'm just gonna say that the Quartz polyamory article is accurate in that it makes me kind of feel weird and I want to step back from "being poly" as some kind of revolutionary act in itself. (yes, this is kind of a thread) (for ref: qz.com/1501725/polyamorous-sex)

Already quite pleased with how much 2FA I have going. Feels like 2019 is the year to get even more online, and also a little less online.


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