#PokemonGo Had a good community day. Was helping other people so I only picked up 9 shiny but I got this nice IV89 level 30 one so I can't complain. I wish I'd realized I had a 1/15/15 for Great League before the timer ran out. I'll hold on to it to see if we get another chance at the move set later this year.
Valentines Day Show more
Yeah its a holiday corporately designed... I could go on instead...
I love my wife, I love my friends, I love my children, I love my family chosen and biological. I believe in the good in people and love when I can see it shine through. I love those who are no longer with me on this journey that have brought so much to my life.
I wish you reading this as much love as you can have given and received in your life. Even if we've never met I still sincerely send my love.
A new podcast is out!
OTWC 030 – Building Community – On The Wet Coast
If you’re lucky, the place where you’re living has a thriving sex -positive community and it takes little effort to find and take part in events such as meet-ups, workshops, and conventions. Most l...
Not Sexy Talk! Ouch TMI. Show more
In things that somehow I had avoided until just now in life... zippers and very delicate body parts skin should not be introduced to each other. What terrible timing. That sucked (or rather it bleed everywhere and didn't involve anything close to sucking).
Revenge Porn Lawyer Show more
Ugh. Things I wish there weren't enough business for someone to specialize in. This is a society level problem we've have to sort out. Education on the subject has to be a part of how to deal with this.
Pretzels and Uncle Ben Wisdom Show more
My year of losing weight maybe threatened by my discovery of how easy it is to make soft pretzels at home. Why did I learn to bake? Seriously I made a concerted effort to become really good at baking, which my friends are happy about but with great power comes great responsibility and I'm not sure I am responsible enough for this skill set.
Toys, Hedonists, and Hobbies Show more
Picking up a bunch of stuff I've been working on and I am struggling to figure out if the things I just found are sex toys or bicycle parts. Either is possible.
This is the week. New York bound to figure this all out and if we are going to move. After some investigation I think we want to live south of the town of Poughkeepsie. There's a town called Beacon that has good schools, and it's an hour train ride into the NYC. It's a 30 min train ride up to work. That's not bad. I keep going back and forth on this. NY will be a hell of a change from SoCal but we will see.
I’d love to start a conversation with everyone here about something that’s been ruminating in my head for a while now, body types and the words and connotations that we place on them. What does everyone prefer when it comes to describing body types? How do the different words and categories make you FEEL? Ex: BBW, curvy, thick, spinner, etc.
Please boost and give me your thoughts if you’d like, I’d love to know everyone’s thoughts on the matter, providers and clients!
Introspection: Moving to New York Show more
So the chance that I'm moving to Poughkeepsie keeps getting more and more likely. I have lived all over but this may be my last big move. I have to say I'm apprehensive about it. My numbers tell me this is a huge economic boon for us. The area is diverse but we're going to end up in a very white neighborhood. I'm concerned about losing lots of months of cycling because it was such a life change for me. This is going to be life altering in huge ways.
Youtube has decided I really like far right politics. I mostly watch educational videos like DIY stuff. They are currently really pushing me to subscribe to various Fox News based channels and commentators. I am entirely confused. What did I do to Youtube to break its algorithm this badly? I used to write code to identify likely customers for marketing companies so something somewhere has me inundated with this stuff and I don't know what but please make it stop.
So 9 years ago at 1am my wife and I got married. We threw this amazing crooners style New Years Eve party for all of our friends and family. After we rang in the new year I put on a tux and she put on a wedding gown and our friend who introduced us married us. So at 1 am on January 1st of 2010 we were married. Because I'm a huge nerd and it gave us a binary number as our anniversary: 1-1-10 1:00.
Ding dong the racist homophobe is gone Show more
My mother-in-law threw her live in boyfriend out last week. She told my wife she did so because she knew she had to get rid of him but when she found out I'd be there she wanted to do it before I got in a fight with him. How a woman who is so supportive of her gay son and his very black boyfriend could date let alone let him live in her home is beyond me but at least he'll be gone before I get there.
Holiday Travel Show more
In St. Louis MO. It has been an adventure. Stops by border patrol, missed the last time to enter Carlsbad Caverns by 5 minutes. Ended up stopping at Bass Pro in Springfield MO at the recommendation of a friend. I have been to a Bass Pro before but nothing prepared me for that place. Massive aquariums, archery ranges, a Carousel, and more kids than you could count.
In-laws tomorrow up by Chicago, my brother's house the day after. Today just hanging with friends in St.L.
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