I got off the phone with our kid's school where the secretary was frustrated because she couldn't get through to his mother... All of the paperwork clearly says First Call Father. Not that calling her is a bad thing, just that her job has her in meetings a large percentage of the day where as I sit either in my lab or at a computer and picking up the phone is no big deal. Clearly the mother is who they needed to make sure our son could tour his new classroom though and not me...
milkshake ducking, anti-choice, abortion, birdsite link Show more
Everyone loves Strange Planet, the quirky aliens who refer to everyday things in charming terms!
*several days later*
We regret to inform you that the creator of Strange Planet is an anti-choice march-for-lifer.
Rock Hard ... #PokemonGo Show more
Was at Petrified Forest National Park today.
+alcohol +Las Vegas Show more
Not a bad way to start a move.
+Sex Toy Amusement Show more
As I prepare for my coast to coast move I load my liberator wedges and other toys onto a car top carrier so as not to have the movers throw them in the moving POD.
I realize that this car top carrier is untested and have a sudden mental image of it falling apart mid drive through some city and sex toys flying off the top of my car through out traffic. I am both amused and horrified at this notion. Wish me the best.
+Masturbation Research (no really) Show more
Just had a great conversation with a sociologist friend about the Demedicalization (no longer a medical problem that needs medical treatment) of masturbation as it ties to Corn Flakes. they weren't aware of Kellogg's connection to anti masturbation campaign.
Special K, the antimasturbation medicine.
Sex Work Show more
So I've been approached by women who were working before. I try to point them towards more likely clients as this isn't my arena of interest (to each their own).
Last night however was the first time my SO and I were approached as a couple. Its had me wondering what made that a thing that was viable. She was charming and we politely declined but my SO positively glowed about it because it hadn't happened to her before and she found it fun to be approached.
#PokemonGo I managed to get in 15 raids over Rayquasa weekend. I ended up with 1 Perfect and four IV 96 or above. Pretty nice haul considering it was only 15 raids.
I might be an atheist but as I prepare for today's pilgrimage to the House of the Mouse I am reminded "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil..."
Keep me in your thoughts as I brave LA traffic to go to Disneyland before we move. We've lived here for seven years and never gone so it seemed like a fun last minute escape. We were probably drinking too much when we associated fun and this but who knows?
In Search Of: Sex Positive MD Part 2 Show more
After taking a suggestion from @memnus I contacted someone on the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom website. They didn't have anyone specific but they pointed me to Hudson Valley LGBTQ Community Center because there's some overlap between LGBTQ+ groups and Sex Positive providers. It's a stretch but the quest continues.
WOW, there's fraud and then there's this... laundry list of news sites, podcasts and the like all defrauded by this guy... My jaw hit the floor when I read this.
I just finished this and I have to say they toyed with my heartstrings a lot. I almost gave up on it in the last two episodes but decided I'd see it out and... it was worth it. I liked the fallibility of characters. I have no exposure to the comic book series.
In Search Of: Sex Positive MD Show more
I've tried Fetlife, Twitter, even some non-monogamy sites like Kasidie looking for anyone with knowledge of a sex positive MD in the area I'm moving to (Hudson Valley are of NY). I have gotten crickets in response. In some manor I think this might be indicative of those sites. I would like to find someone as awesome as I've had here for an MD but that's going to be a struggle.
#PokemonGo Had a good community day. Was helping other people so I only picked up 9 shiny but I got this nice IV89 level 30 one so I can't complain. I wish I'd realized I had a 1/15/15 for Great League before the timer ran out. I'll hold on to it to see if we get another chance at the move set later this year.
Valentines Day Show more
Yeah its a holiday corporately designed... I could go on instead...
I love my wife, I love my friends, I love my children, I love my family chosen and biological. I believe in the good in people and love when I can see it shine through. I love those who are no longer with me on this journey that have brought so much to my life.
I wish you reading this as much love as you can have given and received in your life. Even if we've never met I still sincerely send my love.
A new podcast is out!
OTWC 030 – Building Community – On The Wet Coast
If you’re lucky, the place where you’re living has a thriving sex -positive community and it takes little effort to find and take part in events such as meet-ups, workshops, and conventions. Most l...
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