·Interest in sex from age 5
·Cheated on 1st "real" love / Terrified of being trapped forever / craved variety
·Adventurous adolescence, confused with depression / self-destructiveness
·Settled into serial monogamy, determined bisexuality
·Obtained abusive boyfriend to confirm how shameful I had been
·Left, had slightly adventurous mid-20s. 3sums yay!
·Interest in Swinging mentioned to ex-hub before we became exclusive shot down immediately.
·Passionless decade ensued.
·Left. Stayed celibate 5 months. Learned about codependency, addiction, narcissism, trust, vulnerability, non violent communication
·Met current partner because I was ready to fuck without getting sucked into a relationship!
·Got sucked into a relationship
·Met a decade+ old friend who used to love and want a baby with me, mentioned he's an aromantic polysexual attracted to "open ppl" *like me* (we'd had a 3sum way back) ·My eyes opened a bit
·Event chronology get hazy at this point...
·Had probably talked to Partner about group sex. Had to change his view of "you don't marry the girl you gang bang." 😂 Gave him permission to explore fantasies.
·Exhub was arrested for sexual assault (trial pending) the interview mentioned the complainant had "polyamorous" on her profile
·At some point my cousin mentions he's doing "the poly thing."
·I listen to podcasts like #LifeOnTheSwingSet and #PolyWeekly
·I tell Partner I want to date someone else. He misunderstands... Meets or rekindles with Other Woman out of spite, without the ethical knowledge I have gathered.
·We have 3sum with my Other Man and then Partner sleeps with Other Woman the very next day. Too much too soon, I try to be cool but end up reacting very badly and he hates the whole experience of dating 2 women too. And my Other Man -awesome communicator w/ kink past- isn't interested in dating me because our goals don't align
·Thankfully Other Woman gives Partner an ultimatum and he makes the right choice (me.)
·We decide to play together instead of separately and go to Sex Club ·All Night Orgy ·Confirms we like group sex and it enhances our relationship
·Get on Craigslist and swingTowns and make lots of sexy friends ·Host and attend parties
·Get choosier and pickier, slowdown, focus on socializing. 7 month dry spell. Exploring some BDSM.
·Sex is our Hobby & Sport
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