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I'm so excited that Partner let me toss his salad last night!
We've been together for 2.5yrs. Butt stuff was a hard no for me at the beginning, fingers or anything.
I did not think women actually enjoyed it, I thought it was all about the man using a new hole. I hated seeing anal in porn. I was sure it was painful and I felt bad for the woman.
I read, watched videos and talked to my friend who loves anal, and I became interested.

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I trusted Partner enough to start exploring. I realised I liked it. I could watch anal I porn and be turned on rather than disgusted. 180°
We've had anal sex a few times and I quite like it. It doesn't always work no matter how much I want it, but when it does... Hoo boy!

So then... What about someone who has a prostate? A secret pleasure button up in there just waiting to be pressed? Why limit your experiences? If I could go from a nonono to a yesyesyes, why couldn't he?

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Because, sing it with me!
🎶Tooooxic masc-u-linnnnn-ity🎵🎼

If something goes in a dude's butt it makes him gay, right? That's what that secret button really activates! Homosexuality mode!

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Partner has been helping me explore pleasures and expand my sexuality... Maybe my desire to experiment and successes are inspiring him to rethink the strictness of own yeses and noes.

I never even saw my ex-husband's asshole. I'm a little bit shy about them, like not looking at naked people in the locker room. You politely pretend its not there.

So, last night I looked my partner's cornhole straight in the eye, and I fell I love.

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He was standing up in the kitchen and I started started playing with him from behind. He has the tiniest bum but it's a nice shape with a perky little bounce, I knelt behind him and gave him a bit of a rusty trombone, asked if it was ok. He said it felt nice so I offered to do it better if he wanted to lay down on the couch. He reclined in the corner of the 'L' shape and I knelt in front of him, and ate out his asshole. I was mindful of his no-penetration boundary.

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Trying to jerk him off at the same time was awkward so he took-over but even still he was losing his erection, so I moved on to blowing him just a little and then riding him. I had trouble cumming because I'd been drinking but I had just started my period so my pussy was super slippery and everything felt awesome. I get very self conscious in cowgirl (even drunk!) so we traded spots and finished in missionary. He beat me but I wasn't far behind. We both finished the race.

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Re-capping this afternoon he said he really liked it and said it felt great but it was weird because, "You're not supposed to like it." So it's interesting, as awesome as we are doing, to hear old programming creep in like that, putting a damper on our joy.

I quite dislike digitally penetrating other women and myself... But if there's any chance of pushing that button (the pleasure one, not the gay-transformer one) I'll glove-up, lube-up and step-up.

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