One thing I like about LotSS is your crew's willingness to accept -- sometimes, to live -- the different "flavors" of ENM under your umbrella.

My wife and I don't quite fit in any of the usual categories. Sometimes this has hampered conversations on places like Kasadie, where "of course we all know why we're here," while the eyebrows waggle. 😏

But what we do, makes sense to us. So -- thanks for creating this new place for conversations!

Ok, let's see if I can make this work, this time.

Thanks, Dylan. I'm a podcast listener in St Louis and a Kasadie member. The handle comes from my years in nuclear-powered submarines.

I'm male, married, in my (my gosh, it's now my) late 60s. My wife and I realized, almost ten years ago, that we've never been conventionally monogamous people. And we've been figuring out what we want that to mean, ever since.


We are swingers, polyamorous, sex positive, nonmonogamous, and accepting of any and all relationship practices. We are consent and kink aware. We welcome people of color and extend a specific welcome to black and indigenous people. We accept all sexual orientations (LGBTQIA+ inclusive) and gender identities.

We discuss a lot of things here; podcasts, swinging, polyamory, kink, nonmonogamy, and sex-positivity, and we expect our users to respect general mastodon community standards surrounding using content warnings (CW) for politics, tough discussions, nudity, and graphic kink / bdsm. Viewer discretion is advised.

If you're cool with all this, you can apply to join our little community by visiting our application page and we'll let you in!