An intro full of adjectives: Middle aged, bear-type pudgy body, blond & increasingly grey, especially at the temples and beard, blue eyes, 6' tall. Life-partnered with two wonderful women, one 8 yrs younger, the other 18 yrs younger, with each now for as long as our respective age diff; we cohabitate. Raising twin kids born 2002. Politically progressive. Widely traveled, former ex-pat (Germany and England). College dropout. Work mostly at home as customer-facing support engineer.

@agaran Welcome to the instance glad you're here. If you have questions ask @memnus because despite being vocal I'm a total newbie and she's kind of awesome. Ignore @DylanTheThomas as much as possible. (I'm kidding!)

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