misogynistic language in a positive context, meta, question 

I want to invoke the good feelings someone has when I call her a slut or a whore, but those aren't words I otherwise use and they don't reflect my actual values around sex and sex work (nor hers).

Suggestions of other ways to get at that kink? Or ways to frame it so it won't make my skin crawl?

(Boosts fine!)

misogynistic language in a positive context 

(the line that made me think of it this time was "I want you to feel like a princess when I treat you like a whore" and her reaction to it was 100% worth the metathinking)

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