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Ahoy, New folks on swingset.social? Time for an post!

I'm Lilian, your local Mastodon old-timer and part of the mod team! I'm a thirty-something blue-haired transfeminine queer, living in the Seattle area. I'm an oversaturated solo polyamorous slut, casually kinky, trying to take care of myself and my chosen family. I dabble in all kinds of crafts, always looking for a new way to make useful and beautiful things.

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It's our great pleasure to finally share this document with the world, three years after we and FreyasSpirit originally published it inside Google. It has a new foreword by Liz Fong-Jones. #pluralgang #pluralpride #plurals #justpluralthings #didmpd pluralpride.com/playbook

The city returns to life, rising reborn from the slush like a soggy phoenix.

Be the soft warm surface your cat wishes to see in the world.

Two years ago today, I started telling the people closest to me that, hey, this whole 'cis guy' thing isn't working out so well and I'm exploring alternatives. I gotta say, it's been a hell of a journey since then, and it's far from over. And y'all have been a big part of that.

:heart_trans:

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An actual conversation I've had:

being asked not "so are we dating" or "so is this a relationship" or similar, and instead being asked "so should we be connected on the Seattle Polycule Mega-map?"

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r/traa post, may contain sensitive content Show more

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SEA-local weather alert, important Show more

Underwear Show more

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older trans women are also incredibly powerful
basically the longer you remain alive while trans in this world, the more your power grows

Heck, y'all, thanks for the kind words. It means the world. 💕💕

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hrt Show more

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lewd i guess Show more

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Cat: Bug #34638 filed: food bowl keeps emptying

Me: closed as duplicate, this is by design, WONTFIX

Cat: Opening bug #34639. It is 11am. Food bowl still empty.

Me: You were fed at 8am. WONTFIX.

Cat: Fundamental disagreement with moderator. Opening dispute resolution process.

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Me when talking with other queerdos: what even is gender anyway? Make it go away already, gah.

Me when I get misgendered by People who Don't Get It: that's no way to address a lady!

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Hey, friends, remember to be kind to yourselves and each other today. Days like this it can feel like we're all we've got.

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some bi moods:
•why are men Like That
•sometimes......men be sexy
•but even sexy men are Like That

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