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Veterinary eye surgery, cancer 

My 13ish year old cat was found to have an interocular eye tumor. It was removed yesterday and all I want is to hold him, but he's mostly just been hiding in the bathroom.

Are there tesla powerwall alternatives for a home solar system battery in the United States?


@starkatt makes excellent dicks that are beautiful, high quality, and delightful to use. 10/10 very happy

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menstruation + covid vax 

Oh hey there's an actual study gathering data on the menstrual side effects of covid vaccines: redcap.healthinstitute.illinoi

I just did the thing and they did a basically fine job of making the language in the survey gender-neutral so that's cool ✔️

If you are a menstruator (past or present) and have had at least one vaccine dose, consider participating!

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Wa pol, police 

A Brady List is a list of officers who are not allowed to testify in court because they've shown they lack credibility. At least 183 Brady List officers are actively employed in WA.

Job angst 

I received a job offer for a job that sounds amazing, but it's grant funded for 2 years, and that's freaking me out a bit. Funding may continue...
I'm super comfortable at my current job and I'm about to be there five years which is where I would start getting things like extra vacation and I'm having so much indecisive angst. Benefits would be slightly worse... But amazing opportunity to participate in creating data on equitable trans youth Healthcare and to build the program.

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Ever wanted to make your own silicone sex toys?

Good news: I've finished writing up a huge guide on how to do that!


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trans ranch threatened by far right; gofundme boost 

twitter.com/transsalamander/st: “It's gotten scary here at twitter.com/TenaciousRanch. We've been stalked, had strangers surveiling the property, chatter about us on local right wing message boards, and we've been receiving death threats online. We're hoping to buy extra security stuff like cameras


GRS, proud partner 

This progression happened in under a week (procedure was under two weeks ago). My partner is doing really well!

Do I know anyone who knows a blacksmith type person?
I need fireplace tools and I'd love to support someone... Especially if they can make minimalist ones and hide butts in it somehow

Homeowner advice requested, Boosts okay 

Is there anyone I can talk to regarding tankless water heaters for houses? I was thinking of going electric, but the plumber I met said that could be more expensive than I anticipate.

Anybody have experience/input?


Got high, took off my pants, got a seltzer water, and then couldn't find my phone. I thought I took it out of my pocket of said discarded pants. I did not.

New Hobby?
Being unable to sleep and purchasing feminist e books not from Amazon at 2 am...

Recommendations needed!
Audio playing software where I can point it to an external hard-drive and it can play many varieties of music file (.flac, etc).
Bonus points for tagging abilities and being able to play preferably full albums in random order, but random tracks okay, without the need to build playlists.
I have a windows machine right now!
Feel free to boost!


I can't imagine what its like being a senior in high school, or being at the end of your formal schooling out in the world right now.

The people in the unit above me are apparently building a new house in their apartment based on the hammering, sounds of tools, and screws/nails I can hear rolling around on the floor.
This is not a great wfh environment.

Netflix binges 

Today I finished binge watching kipo and the wonderbeasts, and I binged all of i am not ok with this (and then borrowed the comic it's based on in hoopla and read all of that too). Both ended in cliffhangers and I hope I get to see where they're going.
Also yay queer characters and characters of color. I would recommend them both!

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