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*a crush transitions*

Bisexuals: β€œHahaha you can’t escape me that easily”

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At your absolute best, you still won't be good enough for the wrong person. At your worst, you'll still be worth it to the right person.''

- Karen Salmansohn

Actually I learned useful things about myself too but I have to reflect on those for a while. I didn't really have a jealousy reaction that I feared I might have, but I was definitely feeling something complicated. She was wonderful about reassuring me even when I didn't realize I needed it though, and I think I feel even closer to her now, which I would not have predicted. So I have a lot to think on.

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He was fun, but we learned that "heteroflexible" is not flexible enough 😞

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*on the phone with a local junk removal service* What do you MEAN you don't do GRS

Last Friday, my girlfriend and I met up with a guy to potentially have sex with, but, he talked almost non-stop and we decided against. πŸ˜“ We're meeting someone else this evening. We'll see how that goes…

another date, another person describing me as "cute"… it's a nice boost for my self-image, and at the same time, I'm bemused that this is apparently the first word that comes to mind for absolutely everyone who dates me

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categorizing my clothes by how easy they are to take off in a hurry πŸ€”

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Here's a latinx activist breaking down the subject of "Poly", their own defensiveness, and better nuance than I can cram into a Masto thread, with sources and such.

aidamanduley.com/2015/09/01/st

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y'all. lets please stop using "poly" for "polyamorous" and get in the habit of using "polya" or "polyam". the reasoning behind this is a plea from Polynesian folk who have claimed the ID "Poly" for themselves, like, A WHILE ago.

FAQ :psyduck:

A: Its fine if you didn't know, we're always learning.

A: Congrats if you already do this.

A: If you feel esp defensive about this, thats the racism trying to leave your body. Let it go.

A: If you won't, congrats, you're a racist.

Aw, they cancelled for today due to general anxiety after a stressful week. Well, I can understand that πŸ˜…

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On top of everything else I've posted recently, I have a date this afternoon with a couple who were just looking for friends after moving here recently, so we're going to introduce each other to our favorite comics shops, but somehow we've been doing some very explicit flirting by chat beforehand anyway πŸ˜…

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enjoying feeling slutty this week 😊

lewd 

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Among the reasons that I've been loving establishing more intimate relationships with people, one of them is that it seems like everyone calls me "cute"? And they all seem to mean it? I guess I might be cute (~uwu~), I didn't know that before 🀷😊

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Trying out couples-dating app feeld.co/ with my partner and, although I'm unimpressed with the quality of their software, it is connecting us with quite a few people we think seem fun and hot 😊

I couldn't sleep last night, for various uninteresting reasons, and got super horny just browsing people's listings πŸ˜…

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