I had amazing sex with a stranger, a fellow Flame Con attendee, this afternoon, with lots of conversation before and after that helped me feel comfortable, and then my spouse wanted to hear a bunch about it and is primarily just happy for me.
I'm still processing just how amazingly well that went.
Given that I first chatted with him via Grindr, I could easily have gotten someone who just wanted to fuck, but this guy really took care of me.
Or I could have gotten caught up in feeling guilty, or my spouse could have gotten caught up in feeling jealousy. But I was able to be present during sex, and dinner with my sweetheart afterward was great for reconnecting.
Also I learned I can have orgasm after orgasm without ejaculating and it feels fantastic. He apparently really wanted to enjoy watching me enjoy his efforts.
Though I did get some practice at sucking cock (so happy!) and was apparently not terrible at deep-throating him?
At one point he commented on how loud I was. I'm not usually loud. He was just hitting every button I didn't know I had as he stroked my cock in different ways as he figured out what I liked most.
He emphasized that I should tell him if I didn't like something, but almost everything he did was somewhere between okay and fantastic. I had trouble saying much anyway in between all my panting and moaning. A few times I was in danger of choking on my own spit 'cause I had no focus left for that.
My memory keeps replaying for me these little moments, like… arching my back and grabbing the sheets around me during one of my peaks of pleasure, and then opening my eyes again to see him smiling at what he's doing to me. 😊 Or his voice as he cooed gentle encouragement at me. I got enough words out to ask him to keep talking, tell him I liked his voice.
I didn't realize just how much this experience was something I needed. I guess I'm sorry if you get tired of hearing about it 😅
@shaw no it's great, because a) hot and b) it means I'm not the only one on my timeline doing it 😂
@chillnb I was pretty sure you'd like it but enthusiastic consent is always nice 😘
@shaw okay I'd already been considering posting something specific from yesterday but now I really need to 👀
@chillnb please allow me to encourage this (mis)behavior
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